Tag

HUSBAND

Relationship, Uncategorized

COMPATIBILITY FIGHTS THIS VALENTINE

Earlier in the 70s or the 80s it was parents who used to decide about marriages and the kids used to nod and tie the knots. The couple would get to know regarding each other after marriage or lets say even see each other for the first time during the marriage and they had wonderful relationships. They would grow old with each other and enjoy their relationship thoroughly. However in today’s world the scene is that in spite of knowing the person for years or even being in live in relation the couples lack compatibility. The so called matured and straight forward couples lack compatibility and look forward to separation within some time of their marriage.Read more

You may also like
Parenting
MY PLATE OF HAPPINESS
11/04/2018
Travel
KEEP IN MIND WHEN YOU CHOOSE THE BEST FAMILY CAR
31/03/2018
Travel
Best Place to Visit in Jaipur
05/02/2018
Relationship

DEAR FAMILY WHY DON’T YOU THINK MY JOB IS AS IMPORTANT AS YOURS…

Of lately I had some free time as my in laws and daughter had gone to visit my brother in laws family and my husband had to suddenly go out of station for his office meeting. I just wanted to spend some quality time with myself before heading for a matinee show. Thus I brewed some coffee for myself and sitting on the window aisle I was reading the newspaper. My favorite addiction that I had to bid adieu because of my super hectic schedule and also lack of time in spite of being a pro at multitasking. Page by page, line by line and sections by sections, I finally reached to section of matrimony.

Ahh! down to down rather all of them stated we need well-educated brides, some went to the extent of asking for convent educated brides or working brides. Irony of life men need to get educated so that they get good job and then marry a nice, beautiful, educated and working lady just to do the chores of the house and in addition if she is working and earning it’s a great show off. Desiring this is not wrong but when the society desires something but does not support it and that is wrong.

We claim equality and agree to the fact that husband and wife in a relation are at equal position. If the husband gets transfer from the job it is a deemed fact that wife will shift with him, but if the same transfer is offered to wife will the man ever shift with him. No, a lady is up the many nights preparing for a project, then gets up in the morning and does all the chores, on the day of presentation gets ready in the crisp shirt and formal pants. As she is about to set her foot out a voice comes do not go to the office as other in law or any other is not feeling well and needs to be taken to the hospital. In the entire family it is the lady who will do the needful, whereas the rest will carry on with their usual jobs. This is sad and like a movie, life does not give you second chances or miracles happen that you get selected for the promotion.

Her job promotions and aspirations are equally important, if there is a necessity or emergency someone else from the family could also take the responsibility. All I feel is that it is your family as much as hers and contribution should come from everyone. As the very base of family is one for all and all for one.

Coming to housewives or as they call stay at home moms. Even she is capable enough of achieving all heights in life but she chose to stay at home for the benefit of everyone in the family. She did not run behind her dreams rather made your dreams hers and contributed towards fulfilling your dreams. So when you ask her to leave that chores of the house to switch to work that is wrong. Her household work or taking care of kids is equally important. Respect her contribution towards the family.

We are in a gender equal society and lets practice this from our homes.

You may also like
Review, Uncategorized
For a flourishing abroad career #DefinitelyPTE
21/04/2018
Uncategorized
Super 99 store- A pocket-friendly place for all
18/04/2018
Parenting
MY PLATE OF HAPPINESS
11/04/2018
Relationship

Surname Is The Priority Of Every Family .Then Why Should The Girl Lose Her Surname For Another Priority

In a country like India, people here are loaded with surnames which they also consider as a status symbol and priority. Surnames are extremely important for almost everything starting from school admission to filling a bank form. Surnames are mandatory. But, post marriage everything changes, a girl gets a new name, family, and surname. If the surname is the priority of every family then why should the girl lose her surname for another priority? People and society cannot impose a girl and her little one to follow the patriarchy. Many parents feel that their child should
get only his fathers surname as it is an ego factor for them.

This is where the tradition of the wife taking her husband’s surname after the marriage has taken . However modern may be the men , they almost impose the new person to attach their surnames along with her names post marriage. It is an untold rule. We always say Surname is the priority of every family.Then why should the girl lose her surname for another priority?

If you are a one who fights for their own rights then here are 3 paths that you can consider when it comes to changing your surname post marriage.

1. Embrace your given surname.
The most easier option is to keep and embrace the given name. You can simple abid the law of social and keep the surname gifted to you during your birth. The wedding is a union for 2 family and people, it has nothing to do with names. You can always carry your birth surname and avoid paper changes at various government and local places.
Another benefit of keeping your surname is, you have created a brand value of yourself. Assume, if you are a famous writer or poet people will obviously know with your birth surname, marriage is just an additional feather on the cape.

2. Add in your spouse name
The traditional name game scenario is to add family surname post- wedding. The surname is the priority of every family.Then why should the girl lose her surname for another priority?But, as a newlywed wife you are entitled to take your husband’s last name.In short, you are married to your husband and not his family. You can also do it out of love towards your spouse, you can change the important papers with your new surname.

3. Include your husband’s family name legally but also maintain your maiden surname professionally
Marriage should be considered as an association of two hearts and family. a girl post marriage must be given all rights to choose her preference regarding the surname.She has all rights to keep her maiden surname. The best possible option will be to get associated with the spouse family surname legally and keep continuing with your maiden surname professionally. This is the sure shot method to address both the families and to keep both the family happy. Having dual names does not mean having dual identities, you can always communicate to your circle of friends and colleagues.

#FLAVORSOFWORLD FLAVORSOFWORLD

You may also like
Uncategorized
Super 99 store- A pocket-friendly place for all
18/04/2018
Parenting
MY PLATE OF HAPPINESS
11/04/2018
Travel
KEEP IN MIND WHEN YOU CHOOSE THE BEST FAMILY CAR
31/03/2018
Relationship

A simple Compliment made a beautiful difference to marriage life

A simple Compliment made a beautiful difference to marriage life .Everyone craves for a lovey-dovey happy relationship, it is very easy to be romantic and fun loving during courtship period. But, being married and
spending the entire life together is actually a challenging task. As a partner there are a lot of ups and unexpected downs which every couple faces. many of the things have unexpectedly and couples are usually not prepared for the worst. It is not always easy to have a blissful marriage life, the couple needs to work hard and together to make their married life happy and blessed.

If you want to have a healthy and happy marriage life, then always respect your spouse. make sure to respect their feelings and always treat the partner with love and affection. A simple Compliment made a beautiful difference to marriage life.Treat your spouse and their views equally and always lend ears to them. For a long lasting happy married life treat your spouse and their views equally  marriage, never works when the past issues are dragged. If you really care about the happiness never bring the past.

A simple Compliment made a beautiful difference to marriage life. Shower your partner with beautiful and heart touching compliments.Here are some advantages of showing partner with compliments

1. It makes you feel happy and content
A compliment is the best way to boost the happiness ration. If you appreciate the little things your partner does, it makes them feel appreciated and they continue to make you feel happy. Happiness is contagious.

2. Boosts the closeness
Compliments are extremely important to boost the closeness and overall happiness else with time couples usually take each other for granted and this can create if continued for the long term.Compliments are a great way to bring back hidden and dead affection in a relationship.

3. Best solution to increase the marriage connection
A healthy marriage requires constant work and maintenance, it is like a plant which needs to be watered every day so that it remains alive and fresh. Similarly, compliments work as a little sunshine for a happy and successful marriage life. Always make sure to notice and compliment little things. A hearty communication is a key to happy and blissful married life between the couple.

4. It feels great
Everyone likes to be complimented, A simple Compliment made a beautiful difference to marriage life. It just adds a beautiful simile to your loved ones face. It increases the overall sweetness and affection of the relationship. Compliment will make you feel good and the partner will love your thoughtfulness towards them.

5. It represents you are a team
Marriage is never a one man’s game, both husband and wife should work as a team. Compliment works as a tonic for a healthy married life. It denotes that you both are a team which is working hard to make the married life beautiful and blissful.

Always compliment your partner, never shy away from showering your loved one with a beautiful, cute and loving compliment. A single compliment can make a huge difference.

#FLAVORSOFWORLD

You may also like
Review, Uncategorized
For a flourishing abroad career #DefinitelyPTE
21/04/2018
Uncategorized
Super 99 store- A pocket-friendly place for all
18/04/2018
Parenting
MY PLATE OF HAPPINESS
11/04/2018
Close
Facebook