This Women’s day do not just celebrate womanhood but help women grow
The post is a part of Blogtrain hosted by Mommyinme, in association with 9 other strong women bloggers to celebrate the spirit of womanhood.
Two women can never be friends, or rather two of a trade seldom agrees. However with so many dynamic changes coming let us change this one norm for betterment. Women can lift up each other and not tear each other down and only then this world becomes a better place to live in. This is the time for women as we collectively rock politics, medicine, education , arts, business with our women strong wisdom, compassion and collaboration.
But only and only if women stop being harsh to their gender we can become a truly unstoppable force. All women in the house please admit who has not casted or suffered the sting of a woman’s snarky comment.
Women are capable to heap an avalanche of abuse, discrimination and incivility on one another, from the kitchen to boardrooms. We often come across women who on face say cool to one another but make snide comments and even ridicule and shame them.
But hey gorgeous on the other side we are better than this and definitely deserve better than this. There is a super woman in all of us and this woman’s day lets unleash her this year to support one another and help her grow. As we support and empower each other we all grow big and beautiful inside out. The world is shouting for us to grow big.
But how do we achieve this goal of helping and growing, here are are a few ways to help us achieve this goal:
A) Shine a light on the shadows- If a fellow woman is sad and distressed try to pull her up and lend her the shoulder on which she can shed her tears. Have a candid game changing conversation about it and support her do not shatter her further.
B) Live from your own incredible worth- Pull yourself up to achieve success and do not push someone down to block their way to success. To do good, to raise the roof, to be kind, to change the world for betterment, be a superstar and let others also shine. Do not envy others rather try to maintain a beautiful bond of sisterhood.
C) Advocate zero tolerance- Whether or we agree we all are tolerating the abusive behavior and talk among the women. We are either bullying or being bullied and its time to do away with. Be clear about how you want yourself to be treated, be authentic and respectful.
D) Be kind to each other- Each women is fighting her own fights do not ridicule her. She be at home looking after her family or running a multi national company or doing absolutely nothing, it is her life and let her decide the course of actions no one has the right to judge her or point out things to her. She is incredible the way she is and has her own issues to deal with so be kind towards her and accept her that way or just let her go.
E) Applaud a woman’s success- Do not be jealous of another woman’s success she has achieved it do not degrade it by giving the attributes to excuse. Success is hard to achieve and requires great deal of mechanics to work up and achieve success, but then it is totally worth it to applaud her and motivate her. Help her to achieve success and also celebrate the success.
We should strive to reach to our potential while embracing her values and desires. She is kind and is blessed with great sense of humor.
I introduce my fellow blogger Farhat Ansari, who blogs at justinquisitive, a girl who loves to write about her travels, anecdotes from her life. I would urge my readers to do give her next post on womanhood a read and share their views!
This post is also written as a part of the #AlexaTheIncredible campaign hosted by #womenbloggerwb”